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Homeschooling in Practice - What it Means for the Parents
excerpt from Getting Started with Homeschooling, Practical Considerations
© Beverley Paine, 1997
For many families education usually only becomes an issue when the eldest child
reaches four years of age and enters preschool or kindergarten. Child care may have
already introduced some children and parents to educational programs. However, there
are a growing number of families who plan the education of their children from birth,
deliberately seeking out information about educational alternatives congruent with their
life philosophies.
Most parents delegate the responsibility for the education of their children to schools,
and then become involved to lesser or greater degrees with their children’s school life. As
a parent reclaiming the primary responsibility for educating your children, and looking at
the various educational alternatives available today, including home schooling, you will
need to clearly understand what your role will be in your children’s education process.
No longer will the direction, method or content of education be decided by others. To
feel confident in your home schooling learning program you need to determine the
direction, method and content yourself, in consultation with your children.
This involves critically discussing your views, attitudes and ideas about what education
is and what it means, not just for society, but for you and your family personally. You
might ask yourself the question “How does learning happen?”, or consider how and when
your children learn best, or what your expectations of education are.
You may have already put a lot of thinking into these areas, and determined what you
don’t like about the education system, or perhaps society in general. However strongly
you may feel about these things, negative attitudes impede the learning process. If this is
the case, you will now need to create a more positive view of what you want educationally
for your family, focussing on the benefits of what you can achieve, rather than what is not
happening elsewhere.
This will naturally encompass your family values, and your understanding of how
learning occurs - not just for children, but also for yourself. It is important to spend
considerable time not only thinking, but writing down, your thoughts. These will form the
basis of the home school learning program. This may take some time! A few discussions
over a week, with time in between to mull over your thoughts, is helpful. Remember to
involve the children, and other important caregivers, in the discussions.
The importance of this process cannot be emphasised enough. Only when you clearly
understand what you know, think and feel about education can you confidently determine
the direction, or the goals, of your children's education. And you need to know these
goals, both long and short term, in order to determine the methods, or ways, you will set
out to achieve them.
Consistency is an important element in home education, and is achieved by thoroughly understanding your perception of how learning happens and what you hope to achieve.
Here are some general considerations to think about at this time:
- Are you prepared to spend a lot of time with the children, perhaps all day? Do you
enjoy their company, doing what they want to, listening to their ideas? Do you
respect and understand them and their needs? This looks easy on paper and you
may be casually nodding your head - but it is harder than you think. Parents need
their ‘space’ too. Children are very willing to give parents this space, provided
their own needs for attention are met. Understanding that everyone has a need to
be able to pursue their own interests and needs in their own way and time, is a good
thing to encourage in families. Co-operation follows understanding.
- Which role do you see yourself best at - educational facilitator, mentor, resource
person, co-learner and participant, adviser, friend, parent, teacher? Are you
comfortable with the other roles? Can you develop them more? Do you know
where, and are you prepared, to get help and advice? In schools, teachers have
access to a wide variety of resources, professional development and support
services. You will need to create your own.
- Are you prepared to take up and make the most of learning opportunities when
presented, at any time of day? In the home learning environment you can
continuously evaluate and plan the learning process for each child, based on their
interests, knowledge and abilities. Continual access to the child allows for
increased opportunity to ‘catch’ and extend the learning moment. Life at home as
you know it, may change incredibly as the focus shifts from prescribed to
spontaneous learning.
- Can you learn to be intuitive to your children’s learning needs, to ‘back off’ when
necessary, and to put your ‘teaching’ needs on hold? This involves recognising
and understanding not only your child’s learning needs, but your own perceptions
about learning, and how these two may occasionally conflict. You will need to be
very patient with yourself. This skill often takes years to develop. Don't expect
miracles overnight - even teachers learn this only from many years of experience in
the classroom.
- What is your own attitude to learning - do you find it easy, challenging, exciting,
enjoyable, interesting, an adventure? Children learn first by example. Sometimes
parents have had unhappy school experiences in their own childhood, and seek to
rectify this with their own children. This may mean a shaky start to home
schooling for the family, but time and experience smooth out the bumps, and
parents can regain confidence in their own, as well as their children’s, learning
abilities. Whatever your level of education you will be able to embark on home
schooling if you accept the knowledge that your have always been your children’s
first and most important educator. After all, it was you that helped them learn the
difficult skills of walking and talking!
- Are you prepared to be flexible, willing to try different approaches, constantly
evaluate the educational process, not only of the children, but your own too? Are
you open to seeking out advice and help? There is no need to home school in a
vacuum. The amount of information you can access and use is staggering.
- Do you have confidence in yourself and the children? Can you let them go at their
own pace, gently prodding them with positive strokes? You need to develop
strategies for building and maintaining confidence and support, both for them and
yourself. Rigid timetables, deadlines and grading systems seldom work well with
the ebb and flow of a busy family life, and are generally tailored not to the needs of
individuals, but to external demands. Do you need them?
- Can you give yourself some time to be yourself, not parent, teacher, or slave to the
house-hold chores? Will you be able to satisfy your own interests and needs? Are
you aware of the real risk of ‘burn-out’ and how to avoid it? Parents who
continually sacrifice themselves to their children’s needs offer a poor example of
adult life.
- Are you prepared to spend a long time home educating, perhaps even ten years or
more - or as long as you need to? What about careers, finances, babies, etc? You
may reach a point where you don’t want to anymore, but your children do!
- Can you cope with being different; with opposition from your family, community;
or from the authorities? We all need the approval of our peers, and unless you are
able to secure a supportive network of friends who applaud your efforts, life may
be an uphill battle of wavering confidence in your decision to home educate.
- Most importantly - do you have a sense of humour? Educating your children at
home is a wonderful adventure, a time to treasure, but, like parenting, you need a
sense of humour to survive it!
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